Why your hairdresser is right…….

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Have ever looked in a magazine, seen a pic of someone and thought to yourself:

He/she looks cool, I LOVE their hair…….I want that hairstyle……

You book your appointment and strut into the salon all ready & fired up for your new look, and after your discussing it, your hairdresser tells you……………

It’s not for you!

Gutted!

This is often because your professional stylist knows that you simply cannot reproduce the same look yourself.

It’s perhaps just not a manageable style for you to have to deal with on a daily basis.

So if you did go for this new style, you’d maybe look great for that day (with the help of your stylist) but what would you do when left to style/maintain it yourself?

>Would you end up in a worse position in terms of your lovely locks?

The same logic applies to your health & fitness goals:

I pretty confident I could get you to do A LOT more than you may currently be doing in the gym in terms of intensity, and you would definitely step out your comfort zone, however:

If you can’t consistently reproduce this yourself, what’s the point?

>Anyone can train hard once.

BUT:

>Nobody got in great shape by doing just one intense workout.

If the intensity cannot be matched/reproduced, I’d suggest you’d be better scaling it down to a more manageable level.

You need a find a level of intensity that challenges you but also allows you to build a foundation of progression.

Your hairdresser and I have your best interests in mind, and we are both thinking about your long term happiness and success.

If you need a hand in establishing a routine that you CAN stick to, give me a shout.

That’s all for today, until the next time,

Tristan ‘have you got your holidays booked?’ Buttle.

P.S – What’s the worst haircut you’ve had?

P.P.S – I’ve had some absolute shockers ha

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Lazy Sunday?

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The word ‘lazy’ is often misused and misrepresented…………

There’s a huge misbelief that if somebody doesn’t train, or has stopped training it’s because they are simply ‘lazy’.

I don’t know about you, but when I think of the word lazy, I’m imagining someone who does nothing…….. I’m talking just sits around doing nothing,…..laid on the sofa, all day everyday, basically somebody who lives like everyday is a hangover day…..

I don’t happen to know ANYONE who fits into this category………..

…….…I’m sure there are people like this out there, I’m just saying I don’t know anyone & haven’t dealt with anyone who does literally NOTHING ALL DAY.

In my experience, a huge reason/rational that people give for not going to the gym or not sticking to a routine is a perceived lack of time.

I have trained & have helped some very, very busy people over the year & as I’ve said before, age often presents more responsibility, which again eats away at your precious time….if you let it.

If we consider the following aspects of daily adult life:

>work/business commitments
>family
>relationships
>cooking tea
>shopping
>household chores
>cutting the grass
>being a taxi service to the kids
>getting the kids ready for school
>dealing with moody teenagers

Etc
Etc

…….all of these commitments add up to provide a quick snapshot of the average adult lifestyle….

Anything but lazy, am I right?!

Due to all of these commitments, your physique and health may suffer/decline………if you let it.

However, this isn’t down to plain old laziness, but often an inability to put yourself first.

Feelings of guilt, coupled with thoughts of ‘I should really be doing something else’ are often reasons why people quit or don’t even get started…..

Putting yourself first is tough, I get it……….

The thing is that it’s often a case of breaking the cycle…

All of the things listed above that stop you from training are all exactly the things that you can handle better from training!

Referring to yourself as lazy or, worse still, being labelled lazy by others & society only compounds the feelings of self doubt and adds pressure to a potentially already pressured lifestyle…it’s a very negative downward spiral…..

If you feel you can relate to what I’m talking about, please believe me when I say you are not lazy & you are not useless or worthless…….you are anything but & the fact that you give so much to so many other areas of your life should be proof enough for you……..

What you do need to do is establish a totally realistic & enjoyable routine, that you CAN stick to, one that allows flexibility, that gives you a ‘plan b’ option and that keeps you inspired & motivated.

I would also add that all this is far easier with the right support from the right people around you. This will help you find your ‘me time’.

Think about what you CAN do, forget what you DID do, or what you USED to do, focus on the now, organise your time, schedule it in like you no doubt do with all other aspects of your life, and stop beating yourself up!

As ever, give me a shout if I can help you out.

That’s all for today, until the next time,

Tristan ‘lazy?’ Buttle.

Christmas Shopping -HELP!

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Christmas Shopping……….

There I was…. wandering around the shop aimlessly

……..trying to find what I was looking for…

No joy……

I popped into town last week to get a gift for someone, but couldn’t find it anywhere in the shop!

I didn’t even know where to start……

So I asked the first shop assistant I saw….she didn’t know, but she suggested another girl may know……

Still no joy……

So girl 2, asked girl 3 &……….SUCCESS!

Hallelujah, a Christmas miracle!!

My point today is that you get where you want to be far quicker by simply asking the right person the right questions……

If you don’t know the answers (like girl 1 & girl 2), that’s ok, you just need to find somebody that does!

I could of spent/wasted far more of my time attempting to find what I was looking for and I may or may not have got there eventually but what’s the point when I can accelerate the results by getting advice & seeking the right person to help me?

This is EXACTLY the same with your health & fitness goals.

You are NOT expected to know all the answers, you just need to ask the right questions…

That’s all for today, until the next time,

Tristan ‘sign me up to amazon prime’ Buttle

P.S – it’s always better to confidently not know something, than to under confidently try to know something………

Do you remember your 21st??????????????????????

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From what I can recall (which admittedly isn’t that much……..), mine was a bit crazy and a touch excessive, let’s just say I wasn’t as health conscious in my younger days!

I was thinking about my 21st as I’m in the process of organising an event at work to celebrate 21 years of business at Cottingham Parks……

Anyway, my reason for asking you is that whilst the evening of my 21st itself is a bit hazy, the actual timeline honestly doesn’t seem like it was 16 years (giving my age away)…

Without sounding too much like my dad (it happens to us all,  I remember being 21 like it was only yesterday….

………everyone used to tell me to enjoy it, as it will pass quickly and I now know how true this really is….

As we all get older time becomes even more valuable & precious, am I right?

With age often comes more responsibility, whether its partners, kids, paying a mortgage & bills, or your job, there is always something that NEEDS to be done…

That’s why the time you do get to spend in the gym should be used effectively…

When I was younger I could spend hours in the gym, and if I needed to have lie in after a late night, I could!  Now that my time is far more precious to me, I do all I can to make that hour (or less) in the gym count.

Ask yourself this: Are you using your time to your true potential?

As ever, if you feel you need some guidance, help, or motivation, all you need to do is ask……

Until the next time,

Tristan ‘peter pan’ Buttle.