Lazy Sunday?

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The word ‘lazy’ is often misused and misrepresented…………

There’s a huge misbelief that if somebody doesn’t train, or has stopped training it’s because they are simply ‘lazy’.

I don’t know about you, but when I think of the word lazy, I’m imagining someone who does nothing…….. I’m talking just sits around doing nothing,…..laid on the sofa, all day everyday, basically somebody who lives like everyday is a hangover day…..

I don’t happen to know ANYONE who fits into this category………..

…….…I’m sure there are people like this out there, I’m just saying I don’t know anyone & haven’t dealt with anyone who does literally NOTHING ALL DAY.

In my experience, a huge reason/rational that people give for not going to the gym or not sticking to a routine is a perceived lack of time.

I have trained & have helped some very, very busy people over the year & as I’ve said before, age often presents more responsibility, which again eats away at your precious time….if you let it.

If we consider the following aspects of daily adult life:

>work/business commitments
>family
>relationships
>cooking tea
>shopping
>household chores
>cutting the grass
>being a taxi service to the kids
>getting the kids ready for school
>dealing with moody teenagers

Etc
Etc

…….all of these commitments add up to provide a quick snapshot of the average adult lifestyle….

Anything but lazy, am I right?!

Due to all of these commitments, your physique and health may suffer/decline………if you let it.

However, this isn’t down to plain old laziness, but often an inability to put yourself first.

Feelings of guilt, coupled with thoughts of ‘I should really be doing something else’ are often reasons why people quit or don’t even get started…..

Putting yourself first is tough, I get it……….

The thing is that it’s often a case of breaking the cycle…

All of the things listed above that stop you from training are all exactly the things that you can handle better from training!

Referring to yourself as lazy or, worse still, being labelled lazy by others & society only compounds the feelings of self doubt and adds pressure to a potentially already pressured lifestyle…it’s a very negative downward spiral…..

If you feel you can relate to what I’m talking about, please believe me when I say you are not lazy & you are not useless or worthless…….you are anything but & the fact that you give so much to so many other areas of your life should be proof enough for you……..

What you do need to do is establish a totally realistic & enjoyable routine, that you CAN stick to, one that allows flexibility, that gives you a ‘plan b’ option and that keeps you inspired & motivated.

I would also add that all this is far easier with the right support from the right people around you. This will help you find your ‘me time’.

Think about what you CAN do, forget what you DID do, or what you USED to do, focus on the now, organise your time, schedule it in like you no doubt do with all other aspects of your life, and stop beating yourself up!

As ever, give me a shout if I can help you out.

That’s all for today, until the next time,

Tristan ‘lazy?’ Buttle.

Breaking up after one argument……..

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>Chances are that at some point you have had an argument with your other half?

Did you break up immediately after this one single argument?

>Chances are that at some point you have disagreed with a friend?

Did you immediately sack this friend off and remove them from your life?

>Chances are that at some point you have cracked or damaged your phone?

Did you then throw your phone against the wall, smashing it to pieces?!

>Chances are you have burnt the tea at some point?

Did you then torch the entire kitchen?!

>Chances are that at some point you have had a flat tyre?

Did you then get out the car and slash the other 3 tyres?!

I bet you have been guilty of self-sabotaging when it comes to your goals though?

Eg: you’ve had a long day hectic day, you skip the gym, and by the time you sit down to eat you are tempted by your favourite trigger food…………

You indulge…..

Big time……..

And then some….

You eat more, not because you particularly want it, but because you have come this far and the damage is done, so you may as well right?

Diet starts again on Monday? No point starting before is there?

If this happens because it’s just a bad day, that’s fine as nothing, if done in isolation will ruin your progress completely.

However, I invite you to ask yourself if your actions are linked to a lack of self-belief?

Deep down, do you truly believe you can achieve your goals?

If you don’t truly believe in your ability to succeed, you will find and create examples to support your doubts, and you will tell yourself:

>’This won’t work’…

>’I can’t do this’…

>’I’m too busy right now’…

>’I’m just not ready yet’…

>’I’m not good enough’…….

>’I’m useless/I’m lazy’…………..

 

You are the sum of what you do the most of……………

>One bad day doesn’t have to become a bad week………

>One bad week doesn’t have to become a bad month….

>One bad month doesn’t have to become a bad 3 months……….

Etc

Etc

Etc

Remember this:

Rituals and routines get results………..

Stop giving up on yourself and start believing in yourself,

That’s all for today, until the next time,

Tristan ‘you CAN do this’ Buttle

P.S – sorry I haven’t been in touch recently busy, but happy times.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Supplementation: are you wasting your cash?

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The supplement industry is truly MASSIVE, you name it, there’s a supplement for it………

It can all get very confusing, and understanding supplementation can be made increasingly difficult by public perception and branding.

For example, if you were to ask the average person what they think of protein shakes, a typical response could be “you don’t know what’s in them; it can’t be ‘good’ for you”.

In their mind, you may as well be publicly sticking a needle in yourself!

The exact same person probably wouldn’t have the same reaction to somebody drinking  a ‘sports based’ energy drink, which are extremely widespread and available from just about every shop/supermarket. Despite these drinks very often being highly calorie dense and containing a wide range of stimulant based ingredients, they are for the most part socially acceptable……….

Lucozade for example, is actually marketed, endorsed, and supported by athletes, yet is purchased and consumed by an often inactive demographic, without any secondary thought being given.

What do you need to consider when it comes to supplementation?

Firstly it is essential that you have a balanced diet containing all the necessary nutrients (macros & micros) before introducing any shake or supplement. It is far more beneficial to get your diet on track first for you to notice tangible results and also for you to make vast improvements in your health & performance (both in and out of the gym).

Remember that there isn’t a supplement invented that will transform you or help you if the rest of your diet & lifestyle is poor!

By definition a supplement is ‘Something that completes or enhances something else when added to it’………………..

The use of any supplement is also obviously dependent on your individual goals. I always suggest that before you commit to purchasing any supplements you discuss your goals with a professional, and do your own research.

I do acknowledge that supplements can play a role within your routine and can definitely help in terms of reaching your goals, however, I would encourage you to consider the following pointers with regards to your existing diet & lifestyle before buying and committing to any supplements:

>Are you aware of your average total daily calorie intake?

>Are you aware of what is potentially lacking in your diet in terms of micronutrients?

>If your goal is fat loss, are you in calorie deficit?

>If your goal is to increase muscle mass, are you in a calorie surplus?

>Are you eating sufficient amounts of protein/carbohydrates/good fats to support the level of training you are performing at?

>Are you eating at regular intervals to avoid potential binging? This doesn’t have to always mean 5 meals a day, I’m merely encouraging you to question your existing patterns, are you consistent in your approach?

>Do you plan ahead and prepare your meals, if and when required?

>Do you drink sufficient water for your bodyweight on a daily basis? (https://tristanbuttle.wordpress.com/2014/01/20/are-you-drinking-enough-water/ – have a read to find out how much).

>Do you feel you get sufficient sleep and recovery? (See my blog https://tristanbuttle.wordpress.com/2015/07/28/struggling-with-your-sleep-read-this/

>How much stress do you have within your current lifestyle and how do you combat it?

Before you part with your hard earned cash, I would suggest avoiding:

>Any product that claims to have ‘steroid like’ effects or benefits! The only products that have steroid like effects are steroids!

>Any product that relies solely on buzz words, such as ‘super lean’ or ‘shredded’.

>Any product you are potentially buying solely because someone else is the gym also happens to be using the same product.

>Any product that hides the active ingredients behind the term ‘propriety blend’. This can be very misleading and can often mask the active ingredient quantities, save you hard earned cash and don’t get conned!

>Any product that is promoted/endorsed exclusively by the latest reality TV star!!!

>Any product that encourages you to regularly replace meals with shakes.

What supplements would I recommend you do use?

>A quality whey protein powder – this can prove to a convenient source of protein for some. I tend to favour using it in conjunction with other foods such as oats or yoghurt.

>Creatine – this is a supplement that has been around since the 70’s, and has been proven to have many benefits, to read more click here: https://tristanbuttle.wordpress.com/2015/06/07/confused-about-creatine/

>ZMA – this one of my favoured supplements for aiding with sleep.

>Fish Oil – this boasts a huge number of benefits, including the contribution of normal/healthy function of the heart.

>Vitamin D – if you live in sunny old England, it’s worth considering that exposure to sunlight is responsible for Vitamin D synthesis, and is responsible for the majority of Vitamin D intake in the body.

>Vitamin C – this contributes to normal function of the immune system.

That’s it, it may not be the sexiest selection, but I guarantee they will have a greater impact on your health & performance opposed to the fad/false hope supplement on the market. It will also prove to be far less damaging to your bank account!

I suggest that you consider addressing all the above points before introducing any form of supplementation into your routine.

Doing this will not only improve your health massively, but also place you on the right path to achieving your goals.

Thank you for taking the time to read this, if you found it useful please like and share with others.

If you need any help or further advice, give me a shout.

Tristan ‘keep supplementation simple’ Buttle.

She ignored me at first…………….

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I’m currently taking part in a 12 week challenge to myself to get leaner….

As part of my quest involves increasing my activity levels, I have included some morning walks before breakfast into my daily routine…

I simply get up, quick shower, black coffee, grab my water bottle and go for a stroll….. typically just around the block, lasting between 20-30 minutes…

I’ve done this Monday to Friday, pre breakfast, pre work….

As is often the case, you tend to see familiar faces at this time in the morning, people out and about, heading to work, walking the kids to school, or most commonly walking the dog…….

So on Monday, my first day of strolling an older lady was walking towards me with her little dog in tow…… I smiled and said morning to her and she simply blanked me and carried on walking!

Now I get why this happened, she doesn’t know me, she was potentially intimidated by my presence, and I as I didn’t have a dog or kids with me,  she probably questioned what I was doing!

However, flash forward to Thursday and the exact same lady (who by this point had seen me for the previous 3 mornings) was all smiles and good mornings!

Why? What changed?

Nothing other than familiarity…she simply got used to seeing me walking in the morning, it became normal, and as a result she felt comfortable and relaxed……

This is exactly the same in the gym regarding your health and fitness goals…….

The first time you walk into the gym can be scary, it can be intimidating, you can feel uneasy as you are out of your comfort zone….even if you a regular gym user, I bet you are often guilty of sticking to what you know, and what you feel comfortable doing?

This simply makes you human!

Remember your first day at school? Your first date? Your first day in a new job? First driving lesson?

Through time, you adjust, you progress, you adapt, you grow, you develop familiarity and eventually you are facing those very fears that held you back on a daily basis….

Getting in shape is never as scary as you think it’s going to be, trust me.

If you are unsure about taking your first step, or you need to readdress your current approach, give me a shout….

That’s all for today, until the next time,

Tristan ‘good morning to you too’ Buttle.

The majority are wrong…………

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I’ve worked in the fitness industry a long time, I’ve clocked over 17 years of experience & over the last few years I’ve seen a HUGE shift in the state of things…..

The internet, Facebook, Twitter, & Instagram are all FULL of gyms & personal trainers all promising you the answers to your goals.

The fitness industry is truly MASSIVE now, with more gyms, more trainers, more internet gurus, more nutritionists, more ‘diet’ plans, more of everything…however despite all of this, the industry is FAILING…….

Why?

People in this country are sicker then ever before, obesity rates are higher than ever, and the total amount of the UK population who are members of gyms clocks in at only 13%……

My advice to you is to NOT do what the majority are doing, because the majority are WRONG…

From my experience, here is my advice on what I think you should avoid:

>Any program that gets you ‘shredded or blitzed’ in a definite amount of time, but leaves you going STRAIGHT back to your old ways & habits….often feeling even worse about yourself.

>Ladies –please avoid ANY program/routine that uses the word ‘skinny’ in a complimentary manner.

>Any program/routine where you are NOT encouraged/motivated to change ANY part of your eating patterns/habits, unless of course your habits are already perfect?

>Any program that SOLELY focuses on total body weight ONLY. This is a factor but is not the ONLY factor when getting in shape, composition is the key.

>A system that replaces food with liquid (shakes)…. Post workout shakes are an exception for some people in a supplementary manner, but replacing actual meals with shakes does NOTHING to change your relationship with food.

>Unless you are actually stepping on a competitive bodybuilding stage, the need to eat like you are isn’t necessary, so any program that encourages you to live SOLELY off chicken & broccoli multiple times EVERY DAY should BE avoided……

>ANYTHING that claims the answer is in a PILL!!

>Any trainer that CONTINUALLY boasts about their clients being sick through training!

I could honestly rant all day about this; it’s very close to my heart.

I’m passionate about this because I’ve seen good people with great intentions make bad decisions & choices due to false hope. This leaves them feeling even more fed up, angry, and depressed……….

…………Please don’t be one of these people.

……….take the time to research what is right for YOU…

YOU are individual and your routine/program should reflect YOUR needs…

You need a realistic program that YOU can stick to…

It’s confusing; I get it, that’s why I’m here to help……

You are not supposed to know the answers; you just need to ask the right questions to the right people……

That’s all for today, until the next time,

Tristan ‘turned into a bit of a rant’ Buttle.

P.S – nothing today, I’ve ranted enough!

Does your ‘diet start again tomorrow’?

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Does your ‘diet start again tomorrow’?

In your mind, have you been ‘bad’ or ‘fallen off the wagon’ this weekend?

Starting tomorrow, is this week going to be different?

> What changes are you going to make?

> Most importantly, what changes are you going to be able to stick to?

How is this week going to be TRULY different to any other week?

What action can you take to put yourself one step closer to achieving your goals?

Consider this, what is greater?

The pain of change?
OR
The pain of remaining the same?

What will happen if you don’t change?

Why not make this week truly different?

Trust me when I say you CAN change.

That’s all for today, until the next time.

Tristan ‘believe in yourself’ Buttle.

P.S – doubt kills more dreams than failure ever will…………………

 

You DON’T know………..

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> You don’t know that the 25 stone person you see in the gym used to be 35 stone……

> You don’t know that the person struggling to lift the 10kg weights started by lifting 2kg…….

> You don’t know that the person you judge for being ‘arrogant’ or in ‘love with themselves’, simply because they are leaner than the average person, used to be obese & has had to work their arse to get where they are right now……….

> You don’t know that the person who ‘never speaks’ in the gym & keeps their head down is just as insecure & intimidated as the next person………

> You don’t know that guy who is always ‘checking his phone’ in the gym is a doctor who is constantly on call, and is directly responsible for the lives of others………..

> You don’t know that the ‘naturally skinny’ guy/girl is just as self-conscious as the overweight person……….

> You don’t know what injuries/illnesses a person may have when you see them doing an exercise in what you deem to be an in an ‘unconventional’ manner……….

> You don’t know that the tired & stressed mother of two, who has literally been up all night, is fighting every day to do all she can to regain her confidence….

> You don’t know that the guy next to you the gym who you judge for grunting is going through hell with a messy divorce, and the gym is his only release………..

We ALL judge at times & we are ALL capable of casting our fears & insecurities onto others, just try to remember:

EVERYONE has a story…….

Everyone has their own pain, their own doubts & fears, their own issues & their own hang ups….

That’s all for today, until the next time, have a great weekend.

Tristan ‘nobody knows’ Buttle.

P.S – nothing else today, I’ll catch you next week.