If you play by the same hand, how will you find something new?
Now I’m the first to admit, change can be very off putting.
I often cite 2014 as a year when my life was nothing but change, & it was very tough at times.
During that time I lost focus, lost direction, questioned myself, even partly lost sight of who I am along the way…
Does any of this sound familiar to you? Have you ever felt like this?
………when you KNOW that you can’t keep doing the same thing and you HAVE to change?
BUT the change is scary isn’t it?
It can be hard to embrace the new… I get it.
I can throw a million clichés at you; I can tell you that it gets easier with time or that you will adjust, etc. etc.…..
We’ve all seen the countless motivational quotes plastered all over Facebook & Instagram…..
> They are all well & good, but do they actually have an impact?
> Do they actually help you?
What I invite you to do is focus on what is wrong right now….now focus on the pain of remaining the same…..
> If you DON’T change, what will happen?
> Where will your current pathways lead you?
Rather than just ‘thinking positively’, consider the consequences of NOT changing….
Only when the pain of remaining the same far outweighs the pain of change can we can start to move forward and embrace the change……..
That’s all for today, until the next time,
Tristan ‘SOOOOOOOOOOOO much happier now’ Buttle.
P.S –Trust me when I say you CAN make change, & you CAN move forward……..and that I will help you as much I can…your current situation doesn’t have to be your story.
P.P.S – Sorry I haven’t been in touch as much recently, you’ll be hearing from me again soon.