She’s gone too far……………..

Standard

She/he looks ill’….

> ‘She/he looks gaunt’……….

> ‘She/he must be starving themselves’……

> ‘She’s/he’s obsessed’…..

That’s what they say…..

Who are they?

Good question…they are work colleagues, friends & even family members……

Over the years I have helped lots of people lose lots of weight……..

As a result these people feel better, have more sass & swagger, along with increased energy/productivity, & are generally buzzing through life…………..

Amazing, right? Positive, right?

Well the thing is, some people don’t seem to agree….

Let’s just say, I hear lots of stories of people being less than supportive…………&, as a result, resort to the above accusations……….

>Hopefully you know me well enough by now to know I would never advocate anyone ‘starving’ themselves?!!!

Anyway, the real issue here is that when an individual achieves their results, it can make their colleagues & those around them feel uncomfortable….

It reminds them, on often a daily basis, of what they actually desire for themselves….

They want their results, they just cannot tap into whatever it is that is stopping them…

> The meals, which are planned, can make others feel guilty about their own issues…….

> Their commitment to the gym can make others feel lazy…..

> Their weight loss/results/confidence can make others feel more self-conscious…..

Apply this to yourself…..Do you have the right people around you?

Not everyone will understand your goals, or your motivation…….they don’t necessarily have to, they just need to support you on your journey.

We are often what we are allowed to be….

We sometimes become the average of the people we are around the most….

Make those people count… Are they making you better or worse? Weaker or stronger? Happy or sad?

That’s all for today, until the next time,

Tristan ‘ignore the haters’ Buttle.

P.S – You be you………don’t let other deter you from what you desire……….

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